So, I’ve got some questions about how alcoholism affects things like divorce and custody. I know it’s a tough topic, but if anyone’s got advice or been through it, would love to hear your insights! Anyone know if an alcohol problem could lead to custody issues or what separation agreements cover?
Yep, alcoholism can definitely play a part in divorce. It’s actually one of the common reasons people file. You can even get a separation agreement that covers things like finances while the divorce is in process.
@Tamsin
Good to know! Does the agreement only cover finances or can it handle custody stuff too?
Keagan said:
@Tamsin
Good to know! Does the agreement only cover finances or can it handle custody stuff too?
It can include custody! A separation agreement usually covers financials, custody, support, and even property stuff.
Keagan said:
@Tamsin
Good to know! Does the agreement only cover finances or can it handle custody stuff too?
I had to go through this… it helped so much to have custody set early on. Makes things smoother.
If your spouse has alcohol issues and they walk out on you, the court might let you get part of their future earnings. But you need to be legally separated or going through divorce for this to apply.
Page said:
If your spouse has alcohol issues and they walk out on you, the court might let you get part of their future earnings. But you need to be legally separated or going through divorce for this to apply.
Wait, you can actually get their earnings even if they’ve left? How does that work?
@Payton
Yep, it’s possible. But only if there’s a legal agreement in place! Otherwise, courts won’t really step in.
@Payton
Wow, didn’t know that! Sounds like having something formal set up is key.
For anyone with kids, if there’s alcohol abuse involved, courts sometimes limit custody. It depends on the state, but usually, a history of substance issues can impact custody or visitation.
Niall said:
For anyone with kids, if there’s alcohol abuse involved, courts sometimes limit custody. It depends on the state, but usually, a history of substance issues can impact custody or visitation.
True. In some states, even past alcohol or drug issues can mean limited visits. They’re strict about safety.
@Micah
Exactly, especially if it’s a safety thing. Best to check state laws, though, since it varies.
@Micah
Can confirm. Every state has its own rules. Better safe to check local laws or talk to a lawyer if you’re worried about custody stuff.
Btw, alcohol laws themselves vary a lot too. Like drinking age is 21 everywhere in the US, but rules on when and where you can buy it differ by state.
Zander said:
Btw, alcohol laws themselves vary a lot too. Like drinking age is 21 everywhere in the US, but rules on when and where you can buy it differ by state.
Interesting! Had no idea each state could have different rules on selling alcohol. Do you know if that affects custody too?
@Keagan
Good question! Custody rules and alcohol laws don’t mix much, but if one parent has a record, it could matter in court.
@Keagan
Yeah, they might consider it if it’s affecting parenting. Judges look at the whole picture.
If anyone wants specific answers fast, there’s places like JustAnswer. Experts there tackle these questions for a small fee. I’ve used them before and they’re pretty helpful.
Drew said:
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Oh cool, didn’t think of that! Might check it out if I can’t get answers here.
@Keagan
Definitely worth it! They’re quick with replies, and sometimes it’s nice to have legal answers ASAP.