Anyone know how to start a guardianship process?

Family Law Forum
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Hey everyone, I’m thinking of applying for guardianship of my 7-year-old stepson, but I’m a bit lost on what proof I’d need to show for the court to approve it. I’ve been helping raise him since he was out of foster care as a baby. Any advice?

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I think courts usually want to see if it’s in the best interest of the child. Do you have things like school records showing he’s doing better with you?

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Rye said:
I think courts usually want to see if it’s in the best interest of the child. Do you have things like school records showing he’s doing better with you?

Yeah, I’ve got messages with his teachers and therapist that show his behavior’s better when he’s with me. Do you think that’s enough?

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@Mica
That sounds perfect! Courts like specific examples, so keeping those organized might really help.

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Have you talked with his dad? If he’s on board, that might make the whole process smoother.

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Blaine said:
Have you talked with his dad? If he’s on board, that might make the whole process smoother.

Yeah, my husband’s agreed and has custody, so hopefully, that’ll help my case.

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@Mica
That’s huge! With his consent, the court might see it as a team effort for the child’s stability.

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If the bio mom is around, courts might consider her stance too. Is she involved?

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Kiran said:
If the bio mom is around, courts might consider her stance too. Is she involved?

She’s on felony probation and only recently started visits again. Sadly, his behavior gets worse when he’s with her…

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@Mica
Oof, if you can show that difference, it might help. Courts are big on stability.

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Maybe try gathering testimonies from teachers or his therapist? Could add some weight to your case.

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Willow said:
Maybe try gathering testimonies from teachers or his therapist? Could add some weight to your case.

Good idea! I think I’ll ask them to write something up if they’re willing.

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@Mica
Yeah, that can make a big impact. Shows you’re proactive about his well-being.

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What do you mean by ‘guardianship’? Like, you want legal say over his life stuff?

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Wes said:
What do you mean by ‘guardianship’? Like, you want legal say over his life stuff?

Yeah, more than just day-to-day care. With guardianship, I’d have more authority to help with his education, medical stuff, and general stability.

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@Mica
Got it! Makes sense. Good luck, sounds like you’re doing it for the right reasons.