So, I’m wondering if it’s illegal for an Air Force Guardsman and a Marine Officer to date? They’re not in the same chain of command, but they did meet on a military base while in uniform. Does that matter? I’m hearing mixed things about this.
It’s not illegal, but they need to be careful about fraternization rules. The military’s pretty strict on that kind of thing.
Amani said:
It’s not illegal, but they need to be careful about fraternization rules. The military’s pretty strict on that kind of thing.
Fraternization rules? What exactly does that mean in this case?
Amani said:
It’s not illegal, but they need to be careful about fraternization rules. The military’s pretty strict on that kind of thing.
Basically, it’s about relationships that might affect discipline or create favoritism. If one’s superior to the other, it could get tricky.
Did they meet while one was training the other? That could raise some eyebrows even if they’re not in the same command.
Jai said:
Did they meet while one was training the other? That could raise some eyebrows even if they’re not in the same command.
Yeah, they met during a training, and he was higher-ranking at the time. Does that change things?
Jai said:
Did they meet while one was training the other? That could raise some eyebrows even if they’re not in the same command.
It might. The rank difference could lead to perceptions of favoritism or undue influence. Even if it’s not official trouble, people might talk.
If they’re married, it might look less sketchy, but they should definitely disclose the relationship to their commands.
Zoran said:
If they’re married, it might look less sketchy, but they should definitely disclose the relationship to their commands.
Would marriage really make a difference though? Like, would the officer still be at risk?
Zoran said:
If they’re married, it might look less sketchy, but they should definitely disclose the relationship to their commands.
It helps with the optics, but if there’s proof the relationship started when there was a superior-subordinate dynamic, there could still be trouble.
If I were them, I’d talk to JAG about it. Better safe than sorry, especially in cases like this.
Remy said:
If I were them, I’d talk to JAG about it. Better safe than sorry, especially in cases like this.
Good point. Do they have to file paperwork or something if they want to get married?
Remy said:
If I were them, I’d talk to JAG about it. Better safe than sorry, especially in cases like this.
Yep, there’s extra paperwork for military marriages. Plus, they’ll need their chain of command on board to avoid drama.
Just don’t hide it. That’s the worst thing they could do. Transparency is key here.
Wyatt said:
Just don’t hide it. That’s the worst thing they could do. Transparency is key here.
Makes sense. So just tell their commanders upfront and consult JAG? Seems straightforward.
Wyatt said:
Just don’t hide it. That’s the worst thing they could do. Transparency is key here.
Exactly. Keeping things professional on duty is also a must, even after marriage.