This is really tough to write, but here it goes… My husband is in the Army, and I’ve been dealing with a lot from him being cruel and cheating on me. It got so bad that I ended up in the hospital after almost taking my own life. The Red Cross contacted him to let him know what happened, but he ignored their call. I feel so hurt and abandoned. I’m in therapy now and trying to recover, but I keep wondering… is there any way I can take legal action against him for this?
I’m so sorry you’re going through this. It sounds awful. From what I know, you might be able to explore emotional distress lawsuits, but those can be tricky. Have you spoken to anyone in JAG about this yet?
@Arden
Thanks for the support. I haven’t contacted JAG yet, but I’ve been thinking about it. Do you know what they can do?
@Arden
JAG could help you understand if his actions broke any Army rules or if there’s any accountability from the military side. Definitely worth reaching out.
Did you document everything? Like texts, calls, or any proof of what happened? That’s usually key for legal cases.
Marlow said:
Did you document everything? Like texts, calls, or any proof of what happened? That’s usually key for legal cases.
I have some texts and emails saved. Should I get more stuff together?
Marlow said:
Did you document everything? Like texts, calls, or any proof of what happened? That’s usually key for legal cases.
Yeah, gather as much as you can—hospital records, messages, even notes about his behavior. The more details, the better.
IDK if this helps, but the Red Cross thing sounds like a big deal. Ignoring their call might get him in trouble with the Army.
Sage said:
IDK if this helps, but the Red Cross thing sounds like a big deal. Ignoring their call might get him in trouble with the Army.
That’s what I was thinking too. Do you know if the Army takes that kind of thing seriously?
Sage said:
IDK if this helps, but the Red Cross thing sounds like a big deal. Ignoring their call might get him in trouble with the Army.
They might, especially if it shows neglect of family responsibilities. JAG could confirm that for sure.
What about divorce? His actions could impact things like spousal support or property division if you decide to separate.
Caius said:
What about divorce? His actions could impact things like spousal support or property division if you decide to separate.
I’ve been thinking about it. Would his cruelty or cheating make a difference legally?
Caius said:
What about divorce? His actions could impact things like spousal support or property division if you decide to separate.
Totally could. Emotional cruelty and infidelity might factor into a divorce case. A good lawyer could explain your options.
Glad you’re in therapy. Keep leaning on your support system while you figure this out. You’re doing great just by taking steps forward.
Reese said:
Glad you’re in therapy. Keep leaning on your support system while you figure this out. You’re doing great just by taking steps forward.
Thanks, I really needed to hear that. Some days are harder than others, but I’m trying.
Reese said:
Glad you’re in therapy. Keep leaning on your support system while you figure this out. You’re doing great just by taking steps forward.
You’ve got this. One step at a time, and don’t hesitate to lean on friends, family, or forums like this. 