My 10-year-old son was suspended for 2 days because he brought a small knife to school, which was actually a part of some gifts his cousin gave him before heading to college. The principal confirmed he didn’t threaten or harm anyone; he just showed the knife to some classmates and left it on his desk. They said it could be dangerous for other students. I’m wondering if there’s a way to discuss or challenge this punishment?
That’s tough! Did they explain their disciplinary policy for things like this? Sometimes it’s a standard policy for any item that’s labeled a ‘weapon.’
Roux said:
That’s tough! Did they explain their disciplinary policy for things like this? Sometimes it’s a standard policy for any item that’s labeled a ‘weapon.’
They referred me to their online policy, but it’s very general—just says ‘weapons’ without mentioning knives specifically.
Roux said:
That’s tough! Did they explain their disciplinary policy for things like this? Sometimes it’s a standard policy for any item that’s labeled a ‘weapon.’
Sounds like they’re being overly strict. Might be worth asking them to review this given his age and intention.
I think you should reach out to the superintendent or even write a formal letter explaining his intent wasn’t harmful. They might reconsider.
Jackteagarden1 said:
I think you should reach out to the superintendent or even write a formal letter explaining his intent wasn’t harmful. They might reconsider.
Good idea! I’ve already emailed the principal, but maybe going to the superintendent would help.
Jackteagarden1 said:
I think you should reach out to the superintendent or even write a formal letter explaining his intent wasn’t harmful. They might reconsider.
Definitely! Sometimes the higher-ups are more understanding about things like this.
It’s frustrating how schools can treat kids like criminals over minor stuff. Have they handled similar cases like this before?
Dallas said:
It’s frustrating how schools can treat kids like criminals over minor stuff. Have they handled similar cases like this before?
I didn’t ask, but it feels like they’re reacting really strongly. My son didn’t even understand why it was a big deal.
Dallas said:
It’s frustrating how schools can treat kids like criminals over minor stuff. Have they handled similar cases like this before?
Schools can be inconsistent. It’s worth asking if this is the usual response.
If he didn’t mean any harm, the school should consider an alternative to suspension. Maybe suggest some other way to handle it?
Kade said:
If he didn’t mean any harm, the school should consider an alternative to suspension. Maybe suggest some other way to handle it?
I suggested alternatives in my email, like some sort of guidance rather than suspension. Hoping they listen.
Kade said:
If he didn’t mean any harm, the school should consider an alternative to suspension. Maybe suggest some other way to handle it?
That’s reasonable. A lesson in responsibility would be way more effective than just sending him home.
They didn’t let me talk to my son right after they took him ‘under supervision.’ I only got info from the admins. Anyone else have this happen?
Jaden said:
They didn’t let me talk to my son right after they took him ‘under supervision.’ I only got info from the admins. Anyone else have this happen?
Yeah, that sounds common but unfair. They should let you talk to him directly, especially if he’s so young.
Jaden said:
They didn’t let me talk to my son right after they took him ‘under supervision.’ I only got info from the admins. Anyone else have this happen?
Definitely mention that in any letters or calls you make. It’s reasonable to want transparency.