So I have a terrible co-parent who thinks everything goes through her regarding our kid, like the days I can see him. We have no set plan for visitation, and I recently requested a schedule of every Saturday and Sunday with every other holiday, which feels like the bare minimum. After looking around, the 2-2-3 schedule seems best, especially as he gets older and starts school. What are my chances of getting either of these? I pay child support and have never missed a payment, plus I have no criminal record. She’s not happy about it, and it looks like the judge will decide our schedule.
Can I put in a time-sharing plan for when he gets older to switch to 2-2-3, or do I need to request a modification? I just hope the judge shows me some mercy.
If you can show you’re active in your son’s life, I think you have a good shot at a 50/50 schedule. A judge usually looks at what’s best for the child.
Bevan said:
If you can show you’re active in your son’s life, I think you have a good shot at a 50/50 schedule. A judge usually looks at what’s best for the child.
Exactly! It’s all about the kid’s best interest, not just what the mom wants.
Shawn said:
I feel you. It’s tough dealing with a controlling co-parent. Definitely push for 50/50 at your hearing. Just be clear about your involvement.
Yeah, don’t be afraid to ask for what you want. You deserve time with your kid!