Hey everyone, I’m trying to figure out if a retired military member is required to provide military ID cards for their dependents. I’ve been having some issues with my ex not wanting to get ID cards for our kids. They’re enrolled in DEERS, but he just refuses to get them the IDs. Anyone know if this is something I can do something about?
Yes, retired military members are supposed to provide military IDs for their dependents. The kids are eligible for IDs until they turn 21 (or 23 if they’re in school). If he’s refusing, you might need legal help to sort it out.
@Vesper
I’m dealing with a similar situation. My ex won’t help with IDs either, even though my kids are already in DEERS. What can I do?
Parker said:
@Vesper
I’m dealing with a similar situation. My ex won’t help with IDs either, even though my kids are already in DEERS. What can I do?
You could try speaking to a JAG officer or even file a Petition for Enforcement in family court to make him comply. It’s a bummer that it’s come to this, but that might be your next step.
You might be able to use Power of Attorney if you have it, and go ahead and get the IDs for your kids without him being there. Might help if he’s being difficult.
Cruz said:
You might be able to use Power of Attorney if you have it, and go ahead and get the IDs for your kids without him being there. Might help if he’s being difficult.
Good point! I forgot about that option. It could save a lot of time and hassle if you have the power of attorney.
I don’t know much about military law, but I do know that those IDs are super important for access to healthcare and other benefits. I’d suggest getting some legal advice to make sure your kids get what they need.
@Ciel
Thanks for the advice. I’m just trying to make sure they have everything they need without making things worse with my ex.
I’ve been in a similar situation. It’s really frustrating. You should definitely consider getting an attorney involved if the ex keeps refusing.
San said:
I’ve been in a similar situation. It’s really frustrating. You should definitely consider getting an attorney involved if the ex keeps refusing.
I agree. It’s just so draining dealing with all this. I really appreciate the suggestions though.
Has anyone here had to file something like a Petition for Enforcement? Wondering what the process was like. This sounds like a mess, and I’m curious how it works.
Hadi said:
Has anyone here had to file something like a Petition for Enforcement? Wondering what the process was like. This sounds like a mess, and I’m curious how it works.
It’s pretty straightforward. You file a petition asking the court to force him to comply with his obligations. If he still doesn’t, the court can enforce penalties, like fines or even jail time.
Hadi said:
Has anyone here had to file something like a Petition for Enforcement? Wondering what the process was like. This sounds like a mess, and I’m curious how it works.
Wow, that sounds serious. Thanks for the info. I might look into it if things keep getting bad.