ILs demanding my husband take the kids... what’s the deal?

So my in-laws are really pushing my husband to take our kids to see them without me, and I’m just not okay with that. I mean, what’s the legal take on this? Is it parental kidnapping if he goes along? He’d be with them, but still… I’m feeling super anxious about it. Anyone have any thoughts?

That sounds really frustrating. IDK about the legal stuff, but it seems sketchy to me. They should respect your wishes.

I think if you aren’t divorced, he’s got the right to take them, but it’s still messed up. Have you talked to him about how you feel?

I’ve been in a similar situation. My ex had to deal with his folks wanting to take the kids for weekends. It was tough!

Honestly, if they’re calling him weak, that sounds really toxic. You deserve better support from him.