I filed for divorce 2 years ago because my ex wanted one. I was ‘tricked’ into a ‘separation’ and left the home for a few months so she could get space and figure things out. We were together for 18 years. Suddenly, she started changing the locks and called the cops every time I visited our daughter. My ex was an alcoholic and began physically abusing me. Now she’s calling the cops, destroyed or sold all my belongings, and I have video evidence of her abuse and trashing my stuff. While waiting for her to agree to sell the house, which took 2 years, I stayed with a woman who got jealous and falsely claimed I threatened her. Now I’m a felon. This is my first arrest at 47. I have to respond to a custody modification and a restraining order. I think I’m screwed, but I didn’t do anything wrong. I’ve never abused my ex or our kid. We haven’t had contact in over a year, but she claims to be scared. My videos show she’s NOT! Help!
You need a lawyer ASAP. This is serious, and you need someone to help you navigate these claims.
Definitely get legal help. Document everything you have, including those videos. They can be crucial for your case.
It’s tough, but don’t lose hope. If you can prove her behavior, it could help your situation.
Do you have any witnesses to her behavior? That could help too. Make sure to gather everything!
Stay strong! The truth will come out. Just focus on getting the right support and legal advice.