My husband’s affair with his boss... what should I do?

Hey everyone, I’m dealing with a tough situation and could really use some advice. My husband is having an affair with his boss. He works for the federal government at a US Military base overseas as a civilian. I’m honestly not sure where to start… can I sue them both? Or even the federal government for hiring people like this? I don’t know what to do next. Any advice would be appreciated!

Ugh, that sounds like a nightmare. I’m no legal expert, but I think you can report their conduct to his employer. That could get them both in trouble, especially if she’s his boss. Have you thought about divorce too? That might help with spousal support.

Can you report them before divorce? How likely are they to get fired over this?

I think they could both get fired if they’re working for the federal government. Especially if one of them is in a management position. That could definitely get them into real trouble.

So if they’re both working for the government, it could be a huge issue for them, right? Even if she’s his boss?

Thanks for all the advice, guys! I’ll definitely start collecting evidence and look into reporting them. You’ve been really helpful.