I’m not sure what to do. I left our marital home last week with our 7-month-old son after my husband forcefully pushed me to leave. This is the fourth time he has done this. He has stopped taking his medications and started drinking again. I went to stay with family a few hours away because I don’t feel safe going back home. He continues to escalate, calling me names and threatening me to try to get me to agree to return. I had a restraining order for previous domestic violence, but it expired in August. I’m unsure of my legal rights regarding our son. I offered to stay with him during visits, but he won’t agree. I’m genuinely scared for my son’s safety when he’s alone with my husband. What should I do?
You need to prioritize your and your son’s safety. Consider consulting a lawyer about your rights and options, especially regarding custody and visitation.
Zayden said:
You need to prioritize your and your son’s safety. Consider consulting a lawyer about your rights and options, especially regarding custody and visitation.
Thank you! I think I need legal advice to understand my options better.
It’s crucial to document everything. Keep records of his behavior, any threats, and how he’s acting around the child. This can help if you decide to pursue a custody modification.
Blane said:
It’s crucial to document everything. Keep records of his behavior, any threats, and how he’s acting around the child. This can help if you decide to pursue a custody modification.
That’s a good idea. I will start keeping notes on everything.
If you feel your son is in danger, you can seek emergency custody or file for a protective order. Contact local domestic violence resources for guidance.
Tobin said:
If you feel your son is in danger, you can seek emergency custody or file for a protective order. Contact local domestic violence resources for guidance.
I didn’t think about that! I’ll reach out to local resources for help.
It’s understandable to be scared. You’re not withholding your son; you’re protecting him. Get legal advice as soon as possible.
Larkin said:
It’s understandable to be scared. You’re not withholding your son; you’re protecting him. Get legal advice as soon as possible.
Thank you for your support. It really means a lot right now.
I went through something similar. I filed for a temporary restraining order and got supervised visitation for my ex. It helped a lot.
Skylar said:
I went through something similar. I filed for a temporary restraining order and got supervised visitation for my ex. It helped a lot.
That gives me hope. I’ll consider that option.