So, here’s the situation: my son (who lives in a group home) was visiting, and he apparently got into a car and took a few quarters. Now the landowner is saying we have to move out in 30 days. We never even got a written notice. Is this allowed? Has anyone been through something like this?
Wow, that’s tough! Did the landlord say anything about a lease violation? Like, did they give any specifics?
Vale said:
Wow, that’s tough! Did the landlord say anything about a lease violation? Like, did they give any specifics?
They pointed to a ‘default clause’ in the lease, something about violations by residents or guests. But he doesn’t even live with me!
@Sullivan
Oh, that’s rough. Since your son doesn’t live with you, that sounds like a stretch. You didn’t get any official notice?
@Sullivan
Exactly! Usually, they need to give a written notice with a specific deadline if there’s a lease breach. This sounds questionable.
Did you try talking to a lawyer? Sometimes they can help clarify what’s fair under the lease. Plus, a notice in writing is usually required for this kind of thing.
Sidney said:
Did you try talking to a lawyer? Sometimes they can help clarify what’s fair under the lease. Plus, a notice in writing is usually required for this kind of thing.
Good point. I’ve considered reaching out, but wasn’t sure if it’s necessary yet. Just wanted to get a sense if this happens to others.
Sidney said:
Did you try talking to a lawyer? Sometimes they can help clarify what’s fair under the lease. Plus, a notice in writing is usually required for this kind of thing.
IDK if this helps, but in some states, they can’t evict over something like this without a proper process. Worth checking!
I’d maybe bring up your son’s group home situation too. Sometimes that can shift things, especially if it’s a one-time thing.
Ronald said:
I’d maybe bring up your son’s group home situation too. Sometimes that can shift things, especially if it’s a one-time thing.
I did explain that he doesn’t live with me, but they’re saying I’m still responsible for his actions. 
Ronald said:
I’d maybe bring up your son’s group home situation too. Sometimes that can shift things, especially if it’s a one-time thing.
Yeah, but if he’s not a regular resident, it might be different legally. They can’t always hold you accountable for someone who’s not on the lease.
If they’re bringing up that clause, they should have to prove it’s serious enough to evict you. Did they say they’d take you to court?
Rian said:
If they’re bringing up that clause, they should have to prove it’s serious enough to evict you. Did they say they’d take you to court?
Not yet… but the landlord implied that they won’t change their mind. I guess court could be an option?
Rian said:
If they’re bringing up that clause, they should have to prove it’s serious enough to evict you. Did they say they’d take you to court?
Maybe they’re hoping you’ll just move out to avoid the hassle. Could be a tactic!
Sounds like they’re not giving you a fair shot to fix things. Maybe ask for a bit more time, like 90 days?
Donovan said:
Sounds like they’re not giving you a fair shot to fix things. Maybe ask for a bit more time, like 90 days?
I did request a chance to stay longer or even finish out the lease, but so far no luck.
Donovan said:
Sounds like they’re not giving you a fair shot to fix things. Maybe ask for a bit more time, like 90 days?
Might be worth insisting, especially since you didn’t get a written notice. That’s key for a fair process.