Anyone else have trouble getting their kid the right school support?

My son has had a rough time in school, been bullied since kindergarten and is now in fourth grade. I’ve been trying everything to get him the help he needs, but it’s like no one is listening. He has an IEP for speech, but the school isn’t following through on accommodations that helped in the past, like having him sit on a bouncy ball or move his desk to the wall to avoid distractions. I’ve tried talking to the school, but I feel like I’m just hitting walls. His test scores say he’s fine, but he’s really struggling. He’s falling behind in reading, math, and his handwriting is unreadable. He’s also been bullied by the same kids since 3rd grade, but the school keeps saying he’s the aggressor. I’m feeling really stuck, and now I’m not sure where to turn next… anyone been through something similar?

That sounds so frustrating… I’m so sorry your son’s going through that. I’ve had similar issues with my kid, and the school was just so unhelpful. Have you tried getting a lawyer involved to push for the right support?

@Finley
I haven’t considered a lawyer yet… but maybe it’s time to look into that? I’m just trying to get them to follow through on the IEP and take the bullying seriously.

@Finley
Yeah, it’s definitely worth looking into. A good education lawyer can help with pushing for those accommodations and getting the school to actually listen. They can also help you with the bullying situation.

Ugh, that sounds rough. Schools can be so slow to respond sometimes. If your son’s not in the right class or getting the help he needs, I’d say keep pushing! Have you considered other schooling options like homeschooling?

@Feng
I thought about homeschooling, but his psychologist doesn’t think it’s the best idea because of his social skills. He needs to interact with other kids to help with that. It’s such a tough situation.

@Feng
That makes sense, social interaction is really important. Maybe consider a different school placement? It might take some time, but there might be other options out there. Have you looked into charter schools?

Sounds like you’ve been doing everything you can for your son. It’s a shame the school isn’t more supportive. I’m wondering if there’s another department that might be able to intervene?

Vero said:
Sounds like you’ve been doing everything you can for your son. It’s a shame the school isn’t more supportive. I’m wondering if there’s another department that might be able to intervene?

I’ve tried calling every department, but no one’s responding. I left a voicemail for the supervisor two days ago and still nothing. I’m just so lost on where to turn next.

Vero said:
Sounds like you’ve been doing everything you can for your son. It’s a shame the school isn’t more supportive. I’m wondering if there’s another department that might be able to intervene?

Maybe contact the district office directly? Sometimes that gets more attention. You might also want to try scheduling a meeting with the superintendent if things don’t improve.

Sorry you’re dealing with this… It’s not easy when the school isn’t helping. Do you have any other support systems in place outside of the school? Maybe a therapist or support groups?

Rex said:
Sorry you’re dealing with this… It’s not easy when the school isn’t helping. Do you have any other support systems in place outside of the school? Maybe a therapist or support groups?

Yes, he’s been seeing a psychologist. We just had an appointment today. We’re trying to adjust his meds, and we think it might be leading into schizophrenia… it’s all a bit overwhelming.

Rex said:
Sorry you’re dealing with this… It’s not easy when the school isn’t helping. Do you have any other support systems in place outside of the school? Maybe a therapist or support groups?

That sounds really tough, I’m sorry you’re dealing with that too. Hopefully the changes in his meds help. It might take some time, but keep pushing for the support he deserves.

I know it’s hard right now, but don’t give up. You’re your son’s best advocate. Keep fighting for him, even if the school is pushing back. He needs the right environment to succeed.

Mai said:
I know it’s hard right now, but don’t give up. You’re your son’s best advocate. Keep fighting for him, even if the school is pushing back. He needs the right environment to succeed.

Thanks, I really appreciate that. It’s just been so draining, but I know I have to keep pushing for his future.