Can I sue my husband for defamation or slander?

Civil Law Forum
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I’m dealing with an issue where my husband has made several false claims about me, even involving police and DCS reports that have been dismissed. He’s said things that have seriously affected my reputation, especially with family. I’ve kept evidence, like texts and emails, and was wondering if I can sue him for defamation or slander. Has anyone been through this?

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Sorry to hear that. For defamation, you’d usually need to prove the statements were false and harmful to your reputation. It’s definitely possible if you have evidence.

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Cove said:
Sorry to hear that. For defamation, you’d usually need to prove the statements were false and harmful to your reputation. It’s definitely possible if you have evidence.

Thanks. I have plenty of documentation, including reports that show the accusations didn’t go anywhere.

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@Lux
That’s great to have. Courts often look at things like dismissed reports or false claims to support a defamation case.

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You might also consider sending a cease and desist letter. Sometimes, that’s enough to get someone to stop spreading lies without needing to go through a lawsuit.

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Teegan said:
You might also consider sending a cease and desist letter. Sometimes, that’s enough to get someone to stop spreading lies without needing to go through a lawsuit.

I hadn’t thought of that. Would you recommend including the evidence with the letter?

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@Lux
Just start with the letter itself. If he keeps it up, then you could consider adding evidence or pursuing a lawsuit.

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Defamation cases can be tough, especially if there are no financial losses. But emotional distress could count if you have therapy records.

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Winslow said:
Defamation cases can be tough, especially if there are no financial losses. But emotional distress could count if you have therapy records.

Good to know. I’ve been in therapy because of all this, so I’ll definitely keep those records.

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@Lux
Absolutely. Having that documentation strengthens your case if it goes to court.

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In cases like these, where there’s ongoing harassment, it might be worth filing separately from the divorce to keep things organized.

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Rudy said:
In cases like these, where there’s ongoing harassment, it might be worth filing separately from the divorce to keep things organized.

Thanks, I was unsure if it should be part of the divorce case. Filing separately sounds more straightforward.

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@Lux
Exactly. Keeps the issues clear and easier to manage.

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If it keeps happening, document every instance. It can really help your case if you have a clear timeline of the accusations and impacts.

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Oli said:
If it keeps happening, document every instance. It can really help your case if you have a clear timeline of the accusations and impacts.

Good point. I’ve started a timeline and added the dates of each incident.

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@Lux
Smart move. Judges appreciate organized evidence, especially in complex cases like this.