Hello y’all…
So, I married my husband in January, but I live in TN, and he’s in FL. We’ve kept our bank accounts separate. He promised he’d move to TN, but that hasn’t happened. He also said he was done with marijuana because it caused a lot of anger and health issues—his nieces can’t even be around him unsupervised because his sister thinks he could be dangerous. But yeah, he didn’t stick to that promise either.
We split up in September 2023, got back together at the end of December, and then got married in January 2024 after a bunch of therapy and church stuff, thinking he had changed. I know now that I shouldn’t have married him. I found out in July that I’m pregnant, and when I went to visit him in Florida a few weeks later, I found weed in his kitchen, game room, and work truck.
I want to get an annulment because he lied about major stuff that I wouldn’t have married him over if I knew he couldn’t follow through. But now I have so many questions because of the baby.
We’ve always had separate bank accounts, and I pay my bills while he pays his. He’s barely helped with any pregnancy-related expenses, but he is on my health insurance, which I pay for. I even bought a new car while married using my own money and credit—no cosigner.
So, will he be entitled to any of my assets?
If I have the baby in TN, am I gonna be forced to move to Florida and leave my job just so he can share custody? He said he wants me to have the baby in Florida so he can control everything.
I’ve started looking into family lawyers in my area, but I just want to know what to expect.
I’m a bit worried about posting this, but I really need answers, so I might take it down after I get some clarification. Thank ya.