I’m considering moving from California to North Carolina with my wife and kids to be closer to her family. I’m okay with the move, but I’m worried about what could happen if our marriage turns for the worse. Is there any contract I could have her sign that would help protect my rights regarding custody if things go south? I want to ensure I can take my daughters back to California if needed. I would appreciate any advice you can give me.
You could draft a cohabitant agreement that outlines what happens if you separate. It can state that the kids will reside with you until a custody agreement is established. But be careful with wording; saying it’s for their safety might imply she’s unstable.
I’m not sure a contract like that would hold up, though. Ultimately, custody decisions are made based on the best interests of the children, and a judge might not enforce it if it’s seen as limiting their stability.
@Asa
Even if it’s legally binding?
A cohabitant agreement can clarify expectations, but it might not protect you fully in a custody battle. It’s worth discussing with a legal professional to understand your options better.
Can someone explain what a cohabitant agreement is?
Johnathan1 said:
Can someone explain what a cohabitant agreement is?
It’s a contract between partners living together that outlines responsibilities and what happens if you separate. It can cover financial aspects and possibly custody expectations, but it’s not foolproof.