My 13-year-old son goes to Augusta Preparatory Day School, not because we’re wealthy, but because he’s very bright, and I wanted him to have a great education. Lately, though, the principal has been picking on him. For example, he was once brought to tears by a group of kids at lunch, and later on, he was singled out by the administration based on another student’s word. They even forced us to take him for a mental health evaluation after he told a friend he ‘didn’t want to be there anymore’ (referring to the school environment). He’s been labeled a liar by the principal in multiple instances, and they might be pushing to suspend him. My husband and I have a meeting with the school tomorrow, but I’m worried it’s not the right environment for him. Any advice on getting out of our contract obligations?
Wow, this sounds like such a tough situation. Do they have any actual evidence against him, or are they just taking the other kids’ word for it?
Orin said:
Wow, this sounds like such a tough situation. Do they have any actual evidence against him, or are they just taking the other kids’ word for it?
No evidence at all, just what these other kids say. The principal doesn’t seem to give him any benefit of the doubt.
Orin said:
Wow, this sounds like such a tough situation. Do they have any actual evidence against him, or are they just taking the other kids’ word for it?
So unfair. Schools are supposed to create a supportive environment, not single kids out.
It’s really disturbing they’d pressure him to write a statement. Have you thought about going to the district or another authority?
Terryanne said:
It’s really disturbing they’d pressure him to write a statement. Have you thought about going to the district or another authority?
Yeah, I’m considering it, especially if they keep up this treatment. I’m just hoping the meeting tomorrow will be constructive.
If your son’s not happy there, and he’s dealing with all this stress, maybe public school could be a good change? Plus, no financial contract issues.
Tory said:
If your son’s not happy there, and he’s dealing with all this stress, maybe public school could be a good change? Plus, no financial contract issues.
Honestly, he wants to go back to public school. I just want him to feel safe and supported at school.
Tory said:
If your son’s not happy there, and he’s dealing with all this stress, maybe public school could be a good change? Plus, no financial contract issues.
Makes sense. Sometimes these private schools have a culture that’s hard for kids who don’t fit their mold.
You should definitely bring up the principal’s biased behavior. Calling your son a liar without evidence is a big red flag.
Lyric said:
You should definitely bring up the principal’s biased behavior. Calling your son a liar without evidence is a big red flag.
Exactly! I plan to bring up how their actions have affected his well-being, especially since they aren’t addressing the bullying.
Lyric said:
You should definitely bring up the principal’s biased behavior. Calling your son a liar without evidence is a big red flag.
That’s the right approach. They have a duty to provide a safe environment for him.
If they won’t work with you, consider asking them to void the contract. They might be willing if they know he’s unhappy and you’re considering a switch.
Davis said:
If they won’t work with you, consider asking them to void the contract. They might be willing if they know he’s unhappy and you’re considering a switch.
Good idea. I’ll definitely bring it up if the meeting doesn’t go well. Thank you!
Davis said:
If they won’t work with you, consider asking them to void the contract. They might be willing if they know he’s unhappy and you’re considering a switch.
Hope it goes well for you! No one should have to fight this hard just to ensure their kid feels safe at school.