Rin said:
I recorded a conversation where my husband was yelling at me, putting me down, and calling me mentally ill. I stayed calm and kept asking him not to say these things in front of our daughter. He then told her that I neglect her and that I don’t care about her. I have proof of him saying this on the recording.
I’m the primary parent and handle almost all of the care for our daughter. I get her ready for school, pack her lunch, take her to the bus, pick her up, and spend time with her every day before he even gets home from work. I also make dinner and handle all domestic tasks like cleaning her room and doing her laundry. On weekends, he takes her out, and I’ve never interfered with that, but now he’s telling her that I don’t care for her because he handles the weekends. None of this makes sense, and it feels like he’s trying to manipulate her against me.
I’m planning to file for divorce in a few weeks and ask for full custody. He has a history of addiction and we’ve been to court for domestic violence before. I’m just trying to understand how the recordings will hold up in family court and how they might impact custody.
I’ve already hired an attorney, but I’m looking for personal stories or advice from others who’ve been through something similar.
It’s unfortunate that you didn’t leave when he was violent before, but now you need to make sure you’re prepared to leave safely. Gather all your evidence and make sure you’re ready to file for divorce.
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Oli said: Rin said:
I recorded a conversation where my husband was yelling at me, putting me down, and calling me mentally ill. I stayed calm and kept asking him not to say these things in front of our daughter. He then told her that I neglect her and that I don’t care about her. I have proof of him saying this on the recording.
I’m the primary parent and handle almost all of the care for our daughter. I get her ready for school, pack her lunch, take her to the bus, pick her up, and spend time with her every day before he even gets home from work. I also make dinner and handle all domestic tasks like cleaning her room and doing her laundry. On weekends, he takes her out, and I’ve never interfered with that, but now he’s telling her that I don’t care for her because he handles the weekends. None of this makes sense, and it feels like he’s trying to manipulate her against me.
I’m planning to file for divorce in a few weeks and ask for full custody. He has a history of addiction and we’ve been to court for domestic violence before. I’m just trying to understand how the recordings will hold up in family court and how they might impact custody.
I’ve already hired an attorney, but I’m looking for personal stories or advice from others who’ve been through something similar.
It’s unfortunate that you didn’t leave when he was violent before, but now you need to make sure you’re prepared to leave safely. Gather all your evidence and make sure you’re ready to file for divorce.
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Rin said:
I recorded a conversation where my husband was yelling at me, putting me down, and calling me mentally ill. I stayed calm and kept asking him not to say these things in front of our daughter. He then told her that I neglect her and that I don’t care about her. I have proof of him saying this on the recording.
I’m the primary parent and handle almost all of the care for our daughter. I get her ready for school, pack her lunch, take her to the bus, pick her up, and spend time with her every day before he even gets home from work. I also make dinner and handle all domestic tasks like cleaning her room and doing her laundry. On weekends, he takes her out, and I’ve never interfered with that, but now he’s telling her that I don’t care for her because he handles the weekends. None of this makes sense, and it feels like he’s trying to manipulate her against me.
I’m planning to file for divorce in a few weeks and ask for full custody. He has a history of addiction and we’ve been to court for domestic violence before. I’m just trying to understand how the recordings will hold up in family court and how they might impact custody.
I’ve already hired an attorney, but I’m looking for personal stories or advice from others who’ve been through something similar.
Get a camera to record how you care for her. That way he can’t make false claims about neglect.
Rin said:
I recorded a conversation where my husband was yelling at me, putting me down, and calling me mentally ill. I stayed calm and kept asking him not to say these things in front of our daughter. He then told her that I neglect her and that I don’t care about her. I have proof of him saying this on the recording.
I’m the primary parent and handle almost all of the care for our daughter. I get her ready for school, pack her lunch, take her to the bus, pick her up, and spend time with her every day before he even gets home from work. I also make dinner and handle all domestic tasks like cleaning her room and doing her laundry. On weekends, he takes her out, and I’ve never interfered with that, but now he’s telling her that I don’t care for her because he handles the weekends. None of this makes sense, and it feels like he’s trying to manipulate her against me.
I’m planning to file for divorce in a few weeks and ask for full custody. He has a history of addiction and we’ve been to court for domestic violence before. I’m just trying to understand how the recordings will hold up in family court and how they might impact custody.
I’ve already hired an attorney, but I’m looking for personal stories or advice from others who’ve been through something similar.
Family court can be a nightmare, especially with manipulative abusers. Document everything and get ahead of this. File for divorce as soon as you can and prepare for a long battle. The system isn’t always fair, but having solid evidence will help.
Rin said:
I recorded a conversation where my husband was yelling at me, putting me down, and calling me mentally ill. I stayed calm and kept asking him not to say these things in front of our daughter. He then told her that I neglect her and that I don’t care about her. I have proof of him saying this on the recording.
I’m the primary parent and handle almost all of the care for our daughter. I get her ready for school, pack her lunch, take her to the bus, pick her up, and spend time with her every day before he even gets home from work. I also make dinner and handle all domestic tasks like cleaning her room and doing her laundry. On weekends, he takes her out, and I’ve never interfered with that, but now he’s telling her that I don’t care for her because he handles the weekends. None of this makes sense, and it feels like he’s trying to manipulate her against me.
I’m planning to file for divorce in a few weeks and ask for full custody. He has a history of addiction and we’ve been to court for domestic violence before. I’m just trying to understand how the recordings will hold up in family court and how they might impact custody.
I’ve already hired an attorney, but I’m looking for personal stories or advice from others who’ve been through something similar.
Family court can be a nightmare, especially with manipulative abusers. Document everything and get ahead of this. File for divorce as soon as you can and prepare for a long battle. The system isn’t always fair, but having solid evidence will help.
I’ve already hired an attorney. I also have proof of him drinking while driving—photos of beer cans in his car. Should I report this?
Hadi said: Rin said:
I recorded a conversation where my husband was yelling at me, putting me down, and calling me mentally ill. I stayed calm and kept asking him not to say these things in front of our daughter. He then told her that I neglect her and that I don’t care about her. I have proof of him saying this on the recording.
I’m the primary parent and handle almost all of the care for our daughter. I get her ready for school, pack her lunch, take her to the bus, pick her up, and spend time with her every day before he even gets home from work. I also make dinner and handle all domestic tasks like cleaning her room and doing her laundry. On weekends, he takes her out, and I’ve never interfered with that, but now he’s telling her that I don’t care for her because he handles the weekends. None of this makes sense, and it feels like he’s trying to manipulate her against me.
I’m planning to file for divorce in a few weeks and ask for full custody. He has a history of addiction and we’ve been to court for domestic violence before. I’m just trying to understand how the recordings will hold up in family court and how they might impact custody.
I’ve already hired an attorney, but I’m looking for personal stories or advice from others who’ve been through something similar.
Family court can be a nightmare, especially with manipulative abusers. Document everything and get ahead of this. File for divorce as soon as you can and prepare for a long battle. The system isn’t always fair, but having solid evidence will help.
I’ve already hired an attorney. I also have proof of him drinking while driving—photos of beer cans in his car. Should I report this?
You’d need more solid evidence than just a picture of a beer can in the car. But if he has a history of addiction or other legal issues related to drinking, that could help your case.