Hi everyone, Me and my wife are trying to get a divorce without arguing in court. She wants to have all the time with our kids, even though they really like me. She says she won’t stop me from seeing them, but I’m worried she might change her mind. We’re trying to be nice to each other, but I’m scared she might use the kids against me. She’s saying I can visit them whenever I want, but I’m afraid she might change her mind and I won’t be able to do anything about it legally. What would you do?
I understand it’s tough. Making sure you can still spend time with your kids is really important. To make sure things go smoothly, it’s smart to talk to a lawyer who knows about family stuff. They can help make sure you have a fair say in when you see your kids.
It’s also good to keep talking openly with your wife. Let her know how you feel and try to agree on what’s best for the kids. If you both can work together, it’ll be better for everyone, especially your children.
It’s important to find a balance in parenting. Both you and your wife should have a say in raising your children. Open communication and mutual agreement on decisions are key to effective co-parenting.