Teacher saying she ‘doesn’t like’ my son... how should I handle this?

My son is a freshman and has an IEP. He told me his math teacher has been saying out loud that she doesn’t like him, and it’s making him feel singled out in class. I know he can be a bit difficult at times, but I don’t think it’s right for a teacher to say that in front of the class. His IEP meeting is coming up next week, and I emailed the teacher to confirm if she’ll be attending, but I haven’t heard back yet. I haven’t confronted her about what my son told me. Any advice on the best way to approach this?

That’s rough! Maybe bring it up in the IEP meeting and see if they can provide a solution. Could be moving him to another class if possible.

Darwin said:
That’s rough! Maybe bring it up in the IEP meeting and see if they can provide a solution. Could be moving him to another class if possible.

Good idea. I’ll see if that’s an option. I want him to feel comfortable in class.

Darwin said:
That’s rough! Maybe bring it up in the IEP meeting and see if they can provide a solution. Could be moving him to another class if possible.

A lot of times, they can find another placement, especially if he’s feeling targeted.

You could also request a review of his graded work. If she’s openly saying she doesn’t like him, there might be bias in grading.

Hayes said:
You could also request a review of his graded work. If she’s openly saying she doesn’t like him, there might be bias in grading.

I hadn’t thought about that, but it’s a good point. I’ll definitely keep an eye on his grades.

Ty said:
It might help to talk to the principal about this too. They can make sure the IEP team addresses it.

I haven’t talked to the principal yet, but maybe that’s a good step. Thanks for the suggestion!

Make sure everything is documented. That way, if it keeps happening, you’ll have a record of it.

Lyle said:
Make sure everything is documented. That way, if it keeps happening, you’ll have a record of it.

Definitely – I’m saving all emails and making notes of what he’s told me.

Sounds like the teacher might need extra training on working with students on IEPs. Special ed teachers should know better!

Blair said:
Sounds like the teacher might need extra training on working with students on IEPs. Special ed teachers should know better!

I feel the same. Special ed teachers should expect challenges – it’s part of the job.

Blair said:
Sounds like the teacher might need extra training on working with students on IEPs. Special ed teachers should know better!

Exactly. Hopefully, the school takes it seriously and supports him properly.