I’m facing a tough situation with a temporary support order that has me giving almost all my income to my ex. She is living in a big house for half the mortgage, has no debts, and it feels like she’s dragging this out to force me into a bad settlement. I’m almost out of credit and don’t have wealthy family to help. My income is decent, but it goes out faster than it comes in due to obligations like paying half of her housing costs and car. Is this normal for a judge to put one party in such a disadvantageous position?
You need a lawyer. If you have one already, consider finding a new one.
This is tricky. Could you consider taking out low-interest credit cards to pay for legal fees and manage your payments? Any chance you could adjust custody to reduce child support?
Sometimes it feels like letting everything fall apart is the only way. But that could lead to bigger problems down the road.
Have you discussed payment plans with your lawyers? They should be aware of your financial situation.
Consider moving back into the house. If it’s in joint names, she can’t refuse. You may need to sell or put pressure on her to pay you out.
It’s tough how fathers are often viewed negatively for struggling with child support. I can empathize with your situation.
If you’re making over $200k but still struggling, something seems off. What’s your budget look like?
Look into local legal aid or modest means lawyers for help. They might provide assistance if you’re low on funds.
If you find a solution, please share. It can be tough to manage finances with this kind of support order.
It feels impossible. My partner’s ex is in a similar situation and it’s frustrating for both parties.
I’m trying to manage everything, but it feels like I’m just supporting her lifestyle while I’m struggling to get by.
Consider ways to increase your income or reduce expenses. Explore part-time work or selling items you don’t need.
Just remember, this situation won’t last forever. In a few years, things will likely be more manageable.
You think I should be grateful for the way she’s manipulated our son against me? This thread is about finding solutions while I struggle to keep up with these payments.