I live in Vermont and my STBX will not agree to share Legal and Physical Parental rights. My lawyer mentioned I would likely get 50% parent-child contact but probably not sole rights. I’m curious how this works in practice. What changes for me? Can my STBX control what happens during my parenting time? Can I take my kids on vacations or out of state or country?
In Vermont, if you can’t agree on parental rights, the court will decide. Mediation is required, and if you go to court, the judge may award sole rights to one parent. Parent-child contact can still be shared.
If your ex has sole legal rights, they can make major decisions like schooling and medical care without your input. You’ll essentially be a visitor in your child’s life for legal matters.
If you get only visitation, your ex has the final say on decisions. Make sure to clarify what your rights are during your parenting time with your lawyer.
With 50% visitation, you might have limited say in decisions. Discuss with your lawyer about any travel plans, as the court order will specify your rights.
These questions are best directed at your lawyer, who can clarify how Vermont laws apply to your situation.
It’s essential to understand that while you’ll have visitation, your ex will control major aspects of your child’s life. Discuss any concerns about this with your attorney.